How do you know that you are in love?

Am I in love? That’s the question that you might ask yourself when you are so confuse about someone. You will be confused if his or her could be your just friend or more than that. You just don’t know what should you do and how to treat him or her when suddenly you felt in love. You might feel that your feeling is so fragile. This is because you have not expressed to him or her about your feeling. This might be because of you are unsure whether you are in love or not. But something that clear is about your attitude towards him or her. You will feel so clumsy when he or she is near you. You will feel you have no words to say or to tell because you couldn’t take your eyes from him or her. Your heart will beat faster as he or she is in front of you. Sometimes, you can even hear your heartbeat. And at night or when you are alone, all you think about is him or her. Every second you won’t miss not thinking about him or her. You will think that he or she made you crazy. Sometimes, you can’t really notice that you keep on writing his or her name on a piece of paper. You will only notice it when you are awake from your own fantasy. And when at night, you can even make your own bedtime story about you and him or her. You even create a good happy ending to your own story. You feel so crazy without him or her. And you might even feel insecure that the love of your life might not feel the same as yours. I think this feeling is normal to everyone who is really felt in love with someone. That’s because you did not share your feeling to him or her. You are afraid of rejection that will definitely broke your heart especially when you are about to fall in love. Only you will know exactly when you are in love with someone. Only you that can feel the love flowing through you. But still you are not sure whether he or she can be yours. That is because you don’t believe in yourself. Afraid to take action might blow your only chance to be with him or her. Only you that can tell yourself when you are really in love. So, I hope to all readers who knows yourself better, who knows that you are in love, please don’t be afraid in taking chances. You don’t even know what will happen, whether it brings you good news or bad news. Every bad thing happen has a reason that you might not know. Maybe the bad news that he or she did not accept you, maybe its because he or she is not your soul mate or destiny. God had planned earlier every people’s future. Maybe you are destined to be someone that you have not notice before. But on the other hand, if he or she is really your soul mate but you are afraid to tell him or her, YOU JUST BLOW YOUR CHANCE. Therefore, don’t be AFRAID TO TAKE ACTION. Best of luck from me in knowing yourself better when you are in love. Our actions teach us to be better in future.

Truly by: Emma Maria (31/12/2010)